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Outtamydamnmind's avatar

I swear to god I fuckin love this app. This was a beautiful piece. I felt I found it because you described what I’m living through right now. That never feeling good enough since childhood, being disposable, feeling like love is to be earned! Girlll so relatable 🫶🏼 the letter ! I personally sent an email that was for me and no there was no response. The silence I have been met with for the past 3 months from someone I spoke to and saw every day for over 2 years is wild. It’s also wild that I shared with this person my x fiancé ghosted me after 6 years and having a house together and just poof gone by the next one really sent me. Sent me into an unraveling of places that I needed to understand why ? Why does this keep happening to me? Peeling back layers of grief and pain and allowing space to cry and mourn has been a lot. Thank you so much for literally writing about my life by writing about yours 🫶🏼

This post reminded me of one that I wrote if you were interested in reading 😊

https://open.substack.com/pub/outtamydamnmind/p/the-question-that-has-haunted-me?r=5f3u3l&utm_medium=ios

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Stepping Stones MH's avatar

Your article was beautiful. I love the line that we should get lost without GPS and have to find our way back to ourselves. 🥰

Asking Why takes courage and Acting on the answer is where the magic begins. Change the question to “Why don’t I feel deserving of open communication and equal give and take?”

Sit with what comes up and spend time exploring what lights you up, especially things that are creative. Writing, singing, dancing, drawing, whatever helps you tap into that little kid and helps them been seen and loved 🥰

When you own your worth, you allow the best of you to be seen. 🙏💕

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Outtamydamnmind's avatar

That question ! “Why don’t I feel deserving of open communication and equal give and take?” That is something I will spend the rest of today and even my life unpacking 😊 thank you for reading and providing great perspective and insight. I truly appreciate you 🫶🏼

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2 Wild And Free's avatar

Thank you for being so vulnerable! It really resonates, and as someone who has been through the same situation, I feel you! Grateful for the mirrors and our transformations 🦋

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Stepping Stones MH's avatar

Thank you for the kind words. You are so very welcome. 🙏🥰

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